To Do List:

[draconisregena]

Things I have to do before moving: Taking into account that my lease expires July 1.

Get Birth Certificate from Safe deposit box
Get Birth Certificate Translated into Dutch
Get document that says I am not married
Get document translated into Dutch
Go to consulate/embassy in Chicago and see if I need any more documentation
Check passport date (Done)
Get 2 passport size pictures
Go through stuff, see what I can get rid of. (Have already begun this)
Pack up stuff I want to take with me.
Have yard sale for the rest of the stuff.
FIgure out How exactly I am going to manage an international move with essentially no help.
Start to figure out what I am going to do there by way of a job or schooling.
Sell Car.
Take EMT-I exam...and pass.
Purchase one way plane ticket

Manage to throughout the entire process not murder my parents for their lack of support, and/or avoid them entirely.
Try not to listen to the little voice in my head that says "Your parents are right, you are too stupid to do this..."

Try not to lose my mind.

He's worth it. They're worth it.
Word of the day: anbiddelijk

Comments

[aztecknight.livejournal.com]

Life is full of risks. He is worth it.

You can do this on your own if you have to. You could handle it over there on your own if you need to. You are strong. You are brave. They are worth it.

Check your documents. Make sure you know the people at the consulate in case something goes wrong. Do not forget your roots. You or all of you can always come back if something happens. Keep your documentation.

Talk a lot about your future. Make sure you are on the same page. Communicate.

With all that, you will not have to do this alone. You can get help on this end. All you have to do is ask. And he will be there on the other end.

* hug *

You can do this. You love him. Your friends will support you. That will do it because you are strong.