What do you know...

[draconisregena]

Today at work something interesting happened. I do not like working in the plant when noone is there. My glasses as they are want to do slid down my nose. I push my glasses up and when he looks at me oddly I joke that it was the "universal sign of the geek" and gigglesnort. And he looks at me and deadpans (and he means it, I know) "You're not a geek!" I think that I am offended...I mean I know my shields are not THAT good.
Whatdoyoumean I'm not a geek!?

After the look I gave him, he said "What...well you don't act like one?"

The sexual innuendo from him is getting a little much though. It is funny so I am not sure how to proceed with it because the man truly amuses me. I mean for the most part I think innuendo and flirting is fun, but...I don't need to know that my supervisor hasn't had sex in x number of years. I don't need to know that he takes things I say in almost complete innocence in ways that he says he "can't tell me".

I saw my parents yesterday. Mom only used the word idiot once, and she had a valid point so I didn't really react much.

I just need someone...anyone... to cuddle with me. Touch, just touch. I truly do.

Comments

[lrdfaelan.livejournal.com]

If we were closer I'd happily cuddle with you. *hug*

Might want to let your supv. know that those type of comments are not fully acceptable and to back off a bit.

As for the geek thing. I think that everyone is a geek about something. I've got a co-worker who is a NASCAR geek, I'm a sword geek (among other things).

again *hug*

[norfacoflandra.livejournal.com]

Headed to you: full body, curl-up-and-doze-lightly cuddle.

Advice on workplace romance: Don't. Tried it, it's scary uncontrollable.

[draconisregena.livejournal.com]

I don't want him in that Way at all ever! No. Bad! Not with someone as traumatized as this man seems to be emotionally. Wow. Nonononono.

Can I have that cuddle in person?

[terrilyn.livejournal.com]

All you have to do is show up and you can get a cuddle nearly anytime you want!

Just like call and make sure I'm home, ok?

[aztecknight.livejournal.com]

Mind drifts back to a moment in a hotel room between you two...

[draconisregena.livejournal.com]

Liked that did you? You missed the good stuff. :P

[lrdfaelan.livejournal.com]

I missed some but not all of it. hehe.... Lucky Lucky Faelan.

[mairegirl.livejournal.com]

Illiton's fighter practice? I am always up for a game of "puddle The Maire tm" and I am happy to give Maire Hugs in return.

[mairegirl.livejournal.com]

"innuendo and flirting is fun" and it is. However at Work, it really, truely only works if you are working with True Grown-ups. This guy does not seem to be a grown-up, don't play. I do a slight bit of teasing at work but not real flirting. GRey is hard on people, if you don't create firm boundries with people then it is hard to stop before it gets to be too much.

This guy seem like "an inch is ok, than a mile should be fine" kind of guy. Those kind don't play well with others.

[so-zanie.livejournal.com]

I gotta agree with Maire on ths one. Guy sounds like the slimy predator type. Keep your distance and shut him down. Politely, of course, if necessary reminding him of Mitsu's history with sexual harrassment issues. I can find some news articles if you would like to leave them lying around where he can see them....

[evils-thoughts.livejournal.com]

Practice ways of saying "That is more than I wanted to know about you". And "I don't date co-workers". Then keep saying them when ever you need to.

If it persists start documenting and go to his boss. There is no reason for you to put up with harassment.