draconisregena: (Sweethearts)
draconisregena ([personal profile] draconisregena) wrote2009-02-13 11:29 pm
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Valentines Day

I don't hate it as far as the concept of the holiday goes. Celebrate love.
I think that is a great and noble thing to do. Love.
I dislike the degree of commercialism that the holiday usually has.

So why does it upset me that I know nothing's going to happen tomorrow special because they don't celebrate valentines day in this country. It comes and it goes and no-one really pays it any mind.
I've never really had a valentines day that I remember. I believe I recall recieving roses once. Nothing really memorable, or romantic. This is the first one that i'll have been married for though. That's special. But romance....

I want that every so often. I feel its lack. Don't get me wrong its not like I don't get romanced. Richard did come home with flowers a couple of weeks ago. He's such a sweet thing. I'm so glad I married him.

So everyone, celebrate those you love tomarrow. Go out and do something special, bring him/her a rose. Surprise him/her with dinner. Bring him/her breakfast in bed. Some of you might even spare a thought for me. I know I'll be thinking of you. Miss you.

[identity profile] mairegirl.livejournal.com 2009-02-13 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Everybody has their triggers, the emotional landmines they are not sure why, but are there anyways. Mine is not valentines day, but my birthday.

Take care of yourself and richard.

[identity profile] karmabunny.livejournal.com 2009-02-13 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree with you 100 percent Diane about the day...Love can be absolutely beautiful when two people share and express it to each other.... and I do hope that it turns into something special for you...you deserve it,after all you've done to get to this point. Good Luck!

[identity profile] britishamerican.livejournal.com 2009-02-13 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
I absolutely agree with mairegirl about triggers, oddly mine is my birthday as well. No matter what...it always turns out to be a bit of a downer, and I never feel special...I'm almost 40 and to old for this nonsense, but the same nagging feeling seeps in every year....*sighs* None the less, I keep getting older and can't make it stop! Diane...Happy Valentines Day Sweetie *sends loads of hugs and kisses* I hope it's beautiful for you!!! I also hope you know how special you are to me, I miss talking to you...I hope this note finds you well...:)

[identity profile] aztecknight.livejournal.com 2009-02-14 07:09 am (UTC)(link)
* hug *

I will be thinking of you

[identity profile] paulie347.livejournal.com 2009-02-17 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
"Some of you might even spare a thought for me."

Nah, don't think that happened... ;)