draconisregena: (Lonely)
draconisregena ([personal profile] draconisregena) wrote2006-12-29 11:31 am
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Death

Why is it that people feel the need to end their lives? Why is it that I have lost so many friemds to suicide in the past few years? Why didn't someone tell me before the funeral...I would have gone. She was my Friend. Was.

[identity profile] so-zanie.livejournal.com 2006-12-29 06:03 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

I'm so sorry. If you want to talk about I'm around....

[identity profile] aztecknight.livejournal.com 2006-12-29 06:21 pm (UTC)(link)
* hug *

Who? How?

* hug *

[identity profile] scribewithgold.livejournal.com 2006-12-29 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugs. I've lost several very close friends that way. I won't go on a tanget I have pretty strong feelings in this area. I know it's not easy but one thing I've learned is to always make your words count. If you want/need to talk, don't hesitate. *HUGS* Looking forward to seeing you at 12th night.

[identity profile] norfacoflandra.livejournal.com 2006-12-29 10:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you lost a friend and didn't know they'd gone. And the way is worse.

I'd hazard a guess you know better than we do the clues to the "why". This sounds like a long night's conversation ranging far and wide.

Suggestion: Make a visit to her grave. Daylight, preferrably a sunny day. Take along your happiest memories of her. Mentally sprinkle them about you while you're saying goodbye.

The best way I've found to deal with these things is to keep the good memories fresh and let the bad ones wither and die, like keeping a flower garden.

[identity profile] terrilyn.livejournal.com 2006-12-30 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
*hug*

Hope you can find peace.

[identity profile] http://users.livejournal.com/cochise_/ 2007-01-01 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry :( *hugs*

[identity profile] paulie347.livejournal.com 2007-01-02 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugz* If you need someone, you know how to get in touch.

Speaking of which, I'll likely call you when I'm in the hospital in 2 weeks.