I'm in the same boat. I don't know what happened, and i'm not sure that i want to. From everything that i've heard, the Van D's are well liked, and are good people. I'm not sure i want to spoil that. But, at the same time, the banishment was upheld by B&B, whom i've actually met, and have a greater respect for. So, at this point, I don't know what to think.